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Relationship Over Rules: Why Connection Comes First in Parenting
If rules alone worked, parenting would be easy. But many parents discover—especially in hard moments—that enforcing rules without connection often leads to power struggles, shutdown, or escalation. From a trauma-informed and nervous-system perspective, this makes complete sense. Because children don’t learn best when they feel threatened.They learn when they feel safe . Why Relationship Matters More Than Rules Rules help guide behavior, but relationship shapes regulation . A

Myra Hurtado
3 days ago


“What If Father’s Day Hurts?” Understanding Father Wounds and the Path to Healing
For many, Father’s Day is a celebration. For others, it’s a reminder of absence, pain, or disappointment.

Myra Hurtado
Jun 15, 2025


8 Rules of Love: A Therapist’s Take on Jay Shetty’s Guide to Finding and Keeping Love
As a therapist, here are my insights on Shetty’s 8 rules of love and how they align with the emotional and psychological realities of relationships.

Myra Hurtado
Feb 26, 2025


Breaking Free: How to Understand and Heal From Gaslighting
Gaslighters will erode your self-confidence and sense of truth. Here are a few important steps in recovering from this type of toxic relationship.

Myra Hurtado
Nov 26, 2024


Domestic Violence Awareness: Breaking the Silence and Empowering Survivors
By breaking the silence and increasing awareness, we can work towards a future where every individual feels safe in their home and relationships.

Myra Hurtado
Oct 10, 2024


Getting To Know The “Parts” Of Me
In the Internal Family Systems model, we learn to understand and connect to all parts of ourselves.

Myra Hurtado
Oct 25, 2023


Why Do We Show Up In Our Relationships The Way We Do?
The family system we were born into laid the blueprint for why we show up in our relationships the way we do.

Myra Hurtado
May 24, 2023
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